“Mom, I’m pregnant!” Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow can understand. But why such a fear of experiencing adult women, who have everything in order, have a loving husband, a separate apartment, and the child (first, second, third, fifth…) — they are waiting with joy?
The situation says the psychologist Alla Hwang.
It is noticed that in today’s society, today’s women are really sometimes there is fear of motherhood. Motherhood is not really fit to the values of this society: self-realization, career, achievements… the Future of motherhood begins to be perceived boundary between normal life and the life where all the popular values seem to be unavailable.
Against this background, the fear to admit the mother in pregnancy is quite understandable. But he himself is in some sense just a shadow. And figure that the shadow gives is actually a need to support the mother and a lack of confidence, she will get it.
Before the older woman, the mother helped in childbirth, took the child, washed, taught young Continue reading
Synopsis parent meetings I’m afraid mom
Municipal preschool educational institution
Krasnoborsk kindergarten “Kolosok”
Abstract parent-teacher meetings.
“I’m scared, Mama!”
Regaline E. G.
Fears in preschoolers.
Everyone knows that many children are afraid of something. One scared to stay in a dark room, others do not dare to go on the slide, others run away in horror from the dog, freeze with fear at the sight of bees. Some fear the characters of fairy tales: Baba Yaga, the wolf, the evil sorcerer, other images created by the imagination (“the man with the bag”, a chimney sweep, etc.).
The objects of children’s fears are extremely diverse, and their features are directly dependent on the life experiences of the child, the degree of development of his imagination and such qualities of his personality, such as emotional sensitivity, a tendency to anxiety, anxiety, insecurities, etc. The presence of fear in preschool children in itself is not, as a rule, any pathology, is usually age-related, transient in nature, but at the same time indicates a certain distress in the emotional – personal sphere of the child. Such fears arise from emotional Continue reading
Many of us were baptized in infancy and can’t remember how it happened. And once we are invited to become a godmother or godfather, or maybe even happier – we have our own child is born. Then we once again think about what the Sacrament of Baptism, can we become someone godparents and how to choose the godparents for their child. In today’s post – the responses of Archpriest Maxim Kozlov to questions about the responsibilities of godparents.
– I was invited to be the godfather. What am I going to do?
– To be a godfather – and honorable, and responsible.
Godparents mother and father, participating in the Sacrament, take on the responsibility for a small member of the Church, so they must be Orthodox. The godfather, of course, being the person who also has some experience of Church life and will help your baby to grow in faith, piety and purity.
During the Sacrament over the baby’s godfather (of the same gender as the child) will keep him in my arms, to speak on his behalf Symbol of faith and vows of renunciation of Satan and connection with Christ.
Most importantly, what can and should help godfather, and what he undertakes, is not only to attend the Baptism, but then help received from the font to increase, to grow in the Church life, and in any case not to limit Continue reading