The birth of a child is not only a great happiness for the family. Usually such an important event is becoming quite a serious test of the strength of the relationship between husband and wife. And not all couples cope with the new role. That’s exactly why ladies ask the doctors a question: how can I return the attention and love of her husband, when the family has a new baby.
The birth of a child is fundamentally changing the perception of life people. Changing social roles and statuses, financial burden is redistributed, perekrivaetsya the mode of the day. And this is only a small part of what happens to the couple after the appearance of her long-awaited child.
What happens to the couple after the baby is born
First of all, the workload for young parents is significantly increased. Because the child requires persistent attention. This means that you have bad and a little sleep at night, during the day to be constantly alert, to regularly walk with the child and thus to carry out their daily duties – cleaning the house and making money.
If a child is restless or painful, all these concerns need to multiply it by two and get real busy young parents.
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Ended the school year, the long-awaited summer time: you can sleep as much as you like, no homework, no school – freedom, in a word!
But the parents now the question arises, what to do with the child, so that it will not go crazy from boredom and excess energy during the summer holidays, so as not brought to mind the immediate family and the time went to good use.
Of course, summer camps, kids clubs, etc. trip to village to the grandmother and the grandfather, vacation with her parents is a great idea. But, as a rule, free time still remains and it needed something to fill.
I offer readers Mirsovetov few ideas how to spend your summer holidays and leave time for boredom and idleness, for parents, or for those who will be with the child during the holidays at home.
The first thing I would like to say, is a very important mode of the day and its planning. So all day you with a child was based on a clear plan. Predictability and constancy give the child a sense of confidence and peace of mind, he knows what to do at one or another point of time.
Not necessarily stand up in alarm, and as early as in school, but it is desirable that it was one and the same time and not too late. It is important to teach a child to do morning exercises, to do it with him. In this there are clear benefits and advantages both Continue reading
“I Want more! More!” — often our children communicate with us that way. Not all wishes of the child must be fulfilled, although modern parents believe that they are called to fulfill any desire of their own offspring, and to fulfill immediately.
First, dear parents, the desires of your children can be performed by you immediately, not in a flash, like lightning. Incidentally, such a distance, delaying the time of execution of desires makes the desired more valuable. Because the child wanted, asked for, hoped and waited for. Therefore, getting what you want, it will be more appreciate it.
Secondly, parents are not necessarily in General to fulfill all the desires of the child. Moreover, parents have a duty not to perform at least some of the desires of their children. Because in life, dear adults, not always all of our wishes come true.
Often adults grants wishes to children to not upset from failure, not feel miserable. The parents in this case are confusing two things: 1) to protect the child from pain, worries related to safety of life; and 2) to protect the child from all possible experiences relating to, for example, not getting the desired treats or pampering. Yeah, not getting what he wants, the child will possibly be much to worry and be upset for a while.However, Continue reading