“Where is your Papa?” or that child to answer curious
To live without a dad is not easy. No one says you have to keep the family together at any cost is not always wise and sometimes simply impossible. And yet sonomama know how difficult it is psychologically and morally, and financially, too… And besides, we all don’t live on a deserted island, but in society. And sooner or later your baby will ask “Where’s your daddy?”.
Children on the Playground, the doctor at the clinic, the grandmother of the neighbor… the first time the kid will be perplexed and will come with the same question to you about. what to say, read the article “the Child asks where daddy “. You need to prepare, the second time he did not panic and knew what to answer.
Close to the truth
Key point: do not tell the child “but let’s just say aunt Luda that…”. First, the child will feel the discrepancy: my mom says that lying is bad, and then she asks to do it? And secondly, such a maneuver will attract unwanted attention to this issue. Children tend to think out what you do not understand, and here the logic is very simple – if mom says no, dad, it means that there is something wrong. Don’t be surprised a kid’s imagination can take him very far, to the extent that daddy left because of the bad mother. Continue reading
Relationships with parents — the most important relationship for each person. It is through parents man gets his basic picture of the world, and it is through the parents come the most important lessons. To understand their relationships with mom and dad, perhaps even more important than finding your soul mate and to establish harmony with her.
Propose to take as a prop to further the reasoning of such a model. Every person consists of two halves — male and female. Each has two programs: a male dad and a female mom. These programs are not even connected with the personal lessons, and generic.
By and large, one of the meanings of bringing people together in pairs and creating a family is that the husband’s Family and the Family of his wife through his incarnate on Earth representatives were able to exchange knowledge and skills, and, most importantly, be able to combine them in a harmonious collaboration.
In modern society, the harmonious cooperation of husband and wife is a rare phenomenon. Much more can be found confrontation, acceptance of each other that at the household level is manifested as conflicts, quarrels, discord in the family and the suffering of all its members.
This situation means that the husband and wife failed Continue reading
As in any group, there is also gossip. It starts in kindergarten, and in the middle and high school gossip is the constant companion of the relationship between children and the reason for the small tragedies. Teach your child how to respond to gossip, so he acquired a strong immunity against this infection.
Usually, gossip arise:
a) unintentional distortion of the truth,
b) desire for revenge,
g) the habit of gossiping.
It is therefore important to understand what motivates the person who started the gossip. If it was a revenge ex girlfriend or boyfriend, it is unlikely that the gossip have a shred of truth. If true friend accidentally said too much, and the others followed suit, adorned and carried on, it is not necessary to call the friend of the gossip girl. It happens to everyone!
Gossip can be divided into two groups: those that relate to your child personally, and those that have no direct relation to it, and hurt the rebound. Accordingly, changing the pattern of behavior in response to gossip.
Gossip directed against your child
It should be noted that the subject of discussion Continue reading