How to get the attention and love of her husband after giving birth

The birth of a child is not only a great happiness for the family. Usually such an important event is becoming quite a serious test of the strength of the relationship between husband and wife. And not all couples cope with the new role. That’s exactly why ladies ask the doctors a question: how can I return the attention and love of her husband, when the family has a new baby.

The birth of a child is fundamentally changing the perception of life people. Changing social roles and statuses, financial burden is redistributed, perekrivaetsya the mode of the day. And this is only a small part of what happens to the couple after the appearance of her long-awaited child.

What happens to the couple after the baby is born

First of all, the workload for young parents is significantly increased. Because the child requires persistent attention. This means that you have bad and a little sleep at night, during the day to be constantly alert, to regularly walk with the child and thus to carry out their daily duties – cleaning the house and making money.

If a child is restless or painful, all these concerns need to multiply it by two and get real busy young parents.

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What to do with the child during the summer

Ended the school year, the long-awaited summer time: you can sleep as much as you like, no homework, no school – freedom, in a word!

But the parents now the question arises, what to do with the child, so that it will not go crazy from boredom and excess energy during the summer holidays, so as not brought to mind the immediate family and the time went to good use.

Of course, summer camps, kids clubs, etc. trip to village to the grandmother and the grandfather, vacation with her parents is a great idea. But, as a rule, free time still remains and it needed something to fill.

I offer readers Mirsovetov few ideas how to spend your summer holidays and leave time for boredom and idleness, for parents, or for those who will be with the child during the holidays at home.

The first thing I would like to say, is a very important mode of the day and its planning. So all day you with a child was based on a clear plan. Predictability and constancy give the child a sense of confidence and peace of mind, he knows what to do at one or another point of time.

Not necessarily stand up in alarm, and as early as in school, but it is desirable that it was one and the same time and not too late. It is important to teach a child to do morning exercises, to do it with him. In this there are clear benefits and advantages both Continue reading

How to teach your child

As in any group, there is also gossip. It starts in kindergarten, and in the middle and high school gossip is the constant companion of the relationship between children and the reason for the small tragedies. Teach your child how to respond to gossip, so he acquired a strong immunity against this infection.

Causes gossip

Usually, gossip arise:

a) unintentional distortion of the truth,

b) malice,

b) desire for revenge,

g) the habit of gossiping.

It is therefore important to understand what motivates the person who started the gossip. If it was a revenge ex girlfriend or boyfriend, it is unlikely that the gossip have a shred of truth. If true friend accidentally said too much, and the others followed suit, adorned and carried on, it is not necessary to call the friend of the gossip girl. It happens to everyone!

Gossip can be divided into two groups: those that relate to your child personally, and those that have no direct relation to it, and hurt the rebound. Accordingly, changing the pattern of behavior in response to gossip.

Gossip directed against your child

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