How to calm your baby: tips for parents
It is impossible to describe in simple words the feelings of motherhood, when near you next defenseless lump, whispering “in two holes” trying to make the first movement of the jaws, and this is his first gentle informative look. The young mother, unable to look away from your toddler picks up every movement, cherishes, cares, caress…
Yes, this is natural, as it should be. But this can’t go on all his life. There will come a time when mom will need to go to work, respectively, the child will begin to attend kindergarten. And here begins what many parents fear. What might be the reaction in the absence of the loved one?
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The first days in kindergarten
Those who have already passed this phase in their lives know very well that the first few days, when he will begin to attend kindergarten, constantly crying for her mother, panics, he is not interested baby toys that filled his room in the group, kind words professional educators. Constantly repeats the same word — ” Mother “.
At the first creak of the front door turns his tear-stained eyes with the hope that appeared in the doorway of his dear, beloved mother – the only person in the world, which he now wants to see.
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Small baby crying when he’s sick. He has no desire to “bully” their parents, just in another way he can’t announce that he was in trouble (is hungry, tummy ache, teething, etc.). For the baby form a favorable impression of the world (which is very important for its further development), none of his request for assistance should not be neglected. As noted by psychologists, these requests have mom must react with lightning speed. According to them, the sooner the mother comes to the child for help, the less nervous system suffers and the more favorable the impression the kid about his new habitat.
The books are especially popular in our country B. Spock a lot of advice not to take the child in his arms, not to play with him too much when he is awake, it is alleged, leads to the spoiled and prevents the development of independence. Alas, these tips (as well as much more in the books for Spock) the latest data of psychology does not stand up to scrutiny. It is tactile contact (when a child), a calm gentle voice mom give the child confidence, reduce stress, and thereby created the conditions for independence.
All parents it is advisable to learn one simple thing: in the first months of life (approximately one year) there is no danger to spoil the child. Love and affection can never have too many.
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Experienced parents (who have already raised at least one child), you know that kindergarten can seem a scary place. Very often in such situations, when the child may start to cry (to weep bitterly, breaking the hearts of parents, in the morning, going to kindergarten – how to make that wouldn’t happen? How to help your baby correctly and quickly adapt to life in a new staff of preschool educational institutions, how to make life in the kindergarten for a child happy and comfortable?
Believe me, to prepare your child for kindergarten is fairly easy, the important thing is not to forget that the way to solve this problem entirely in the hands of parents!
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How to start preparation?
Now, it comes time and you have made the decision to enroll your child in kindergarten. Of course, you managed to communicate with his future nurses and teachers, visited the room where the child will now spend a big portion of his time, looked at the other children with whom the kid will now have to make friends and socialize. And surely you all liked Continue reading