Many kids are afraid of something, someone… How do these constant fears that are the basis for many life.
“… Come grey little wolf and bite at the flank,” the mother sings a lullaby, and then is surprised when he hears from a child :”I’m scared!”. Together, let us understand, what are the causes of fear from our children and how to deal with them.
In the first place . children learn fears from us, parents. If mom is afraid of dogs, there’s a very high chance that the child will be afraid of them. The same applies to fear of thunderstorm and lots more. The children of anxious mothers, ready all around to see the potential danger for your kid grow up to be ultra-cautious and fearful. And all because at every step mum warns: “Caution! Machine! Attention! Dog! Caution. “And the child becomes accustomed to living in anxiety, subconsciously, all the time expecting some danger.
Secondly . children’s fears and generates excessive parental care. The child growing in greenhouse conditions, it’s very difficult to adjust to life without “protective suit”, and he is everywhere begin to haunt danger, and on this basis, there are fears. A child’s opportunities to learn about Continue reading
Synopsis parent meetings I’m afraid mom
Municipal preschool educational institution
Krasnoborsk kindergarten “Kolosok”
Abstract parent-teacher meetings.
“I’m scared, Mama!”
Regaline E. G.
Fears in preschoolers.
Everyone knows that many children are afraid of something. One scared to stay in a dark room, others do not dare to go on the slide, others run away in horror from the dog, freeze with fear at the sight of bees. Some fear the characters of fairy tales: Baba Yaga, the wolf, the evil sorcerer, other images created by the imagination (“the man with the bag”, a chimney sweep, etc.).
The objects of children’s fears are extremely diverse, and their features are directly dependent on the life experiences of the child, the degree of development of his imagination and such qualities of his personality, such as emotional sensitivity, a tendency to anxiety, anxiety, insecurities, etc. The presence of fear in preschool children in itself is not, as a rule, any pathology, is usually age-related, transient in nature, but at the same time indicates a certain distress in the emotional – personal sphere of the child. Such fears arise from emotional Continue reading
Not for all children visiting kindergarten evokes positive emotions, often the children can’t come to terms with the permanent early rising in the morning, stress due to conflicts with peers, strict discipline, etc. And these kids more than those who are happy to run in the garden. The rest are capable of tantrums that accompany your trek in kindergarten, they constantly cry or evening, or after sleep, or during the journey. They cry at the sight of educator or in the care of parents, but it’s clear that this crying is always a reason that it is important to identify and correct the child’s behavior to avoid such stress.
What can be causes of crying baby?
One reason for these constant tears may be early each morning when the child is set on a sweet morning sleep. The child actively awake, forced to gather in the garden and he is trying all he means to stay at home. Many kids can even lie on the floor in hysterics, parents not only led them to the garden.
With such an extreme behavior of the baby should explain to him what is taking him to kindergarten. Tell your child that you need to go to work to earn a lot of money, which you will definitely buy him beautiful new clothes and toys. Convincing in this baby, you should stick to our promises, that this explanation has not lost Continue reading