Many kids are afraid of something, someone… How do these constant fears that are the basis for many life.
“… Come grey little wolf and bite at the flank,” the mother sings a lullaby, and then is surprised when he hears from a child :”I’m scared!”. Together, let us understand, what are the causes of fear from our children and how to deal with them.
In the first place . children learn fears from us, parents. If mom is afraid of dogs, there’s a very high chance that the child will be afraid of them. The same applies to fear of thunderstorm and lots more. The children of anxious mothers, ready all around to see the potential danger for your kid grow up to be ultra-cautious and fearful. And all because at every step mum warns: “Caution! Machine! Attention! Dog! Caution. “And the child becomes accustomed to living in anxiety, subconsciously, all the time expecting some danger.
Secondly . children’s fears and generates excessive parental care. The child growing in greenhouse conditions, it’s very difficult to adjust to life without “protective suit”, and he is everywhere begin to haunt danger, and on this basis, there are fears. A child’s opportunities to learn about Continue reading
The child persistently draws and eats with the left hand, despite all your entreaties? Is it worth it to retrain or is it better to accept this feature?
Lefties are called not only to people that are better controlled with the left hand, but generally those whose left-sided paired organs (foot, hand, eye, ear) are better developed and have played a leading role. Such characteristics are due to the structure of its brain. When a person is better developed are the “left” bodies, this means that the leading role in the brain, the right hemisphere takes. And here it turns out that the difference between “left-brain” people (i.e. our most right-handed), from “right-brained” is much more global than just the choice of the dominant hand.
The left hemisphere of the human brain responsible for these functions in our thinking as logic, manipulation of signs and symbols, the ability to dismember and detail objects and events. Left-brain thinking is more pronounced in men. The right hemisphere is responsible for intuition. The people that it takes a dominant role. hardly dissected picture of the world into its component parts, analyze bad, but able to see an object or event entirely Continue reading
Adult women, though, and the home, hardly coexist in the same kitchen, and adolescent girls it is not easy to grow up with the jealous moms.
So competition does not destroy the relationships of loved ones, it is better not to ignore (say, the problem does not concern us), and to investigate such a possibility, says analyst Ilona Tyszkiewicz.
Almost every fairy tale for girls begins with how his father married a bitchy beauty. And it’s not that at every step met orphans. Tales designed not only to them, and normal children. The growing child with a good relationship with my mother can not openly recognize the spirit of competition. Not so ashamed to dream about the victory over the “evil alien aunt” than a real parent. Incidentally, the first sibling rivalry occurs in 4-6 years, when it becomes clear that to marry dear old dad will not succeed – he’s busy. A child looks in a new way: on the one hand, this is mom’s favorite, on the other hand,… Oh, you had to be born before it and “borrow” dad. In adolescence there is another interest is: beautiful I mom?
These stages are experienced in all children. Here are just a reaction to this mom totally different. Continue reading