“Mom, I’m pregnant!” Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow can understand. But why such a fear of experiencing adult women, who have everything in order, have a loving husband, a separate apartment, and the child (first, second, third, fifth…) — they are waiting with joy?
The situation says the psychologist Alla Hwang.
It is noticed that in today’s society, today’s women are really sometimes there is fear of motherhood. Motherhood is not really fit to the values of this society: self-realization, career, achievements… the Future of motherhood begins to be perceived boundary between normal life and the life where all the popular values seem to be unavailable.
Against this background, the fear to admit the mother in pregnancy is quite understandable. But he himself is in some sense just a shadow. And figure that the shadow gives is actually a need to support the mother and a lack of confidence, she will get it.
Before the older woman, the mother helped in childbirth, took the child, washed, taught young Continue reading
Relationships with parents — the most important relationship for each person. It is through parents man gets his basic picture of the world, and it is through the parents come the most important lessons. To understand their relationships with mom and dad, perhaps even more important than finding your soul mate and to establish harmony with her.
Propose to take as a prop to further the reasoning of such a model. Every person consists of two halves — male and female. Each has two programs: a male dad and a female mom. These programs are not even connected with the personal lessons, and generic.
By and large, one of the meanings of bringing people together in pairs and creating a family is that the husband’s Family and the Family of his wife through his incarnate on Earth representatives were able to exchange knowledge and skills, and, most importantly, be able to combine them in a harmonious collaboration.
In modern society, the harmonious cooperation of husband and wife is a rare phenomenon. Much more can be found confrontation, acceptance of each other that at the household level is manifested as conflicts, quarrels, discord in the family and the suffering of all its members.
This situation means that the husband and wife failed Continue reading
Various forms of children’s creative experimentation contribute to the development of the curiosity of children, their curiosity of the mind, form of intellectual ability.
One of the important lines of mental development of the preschooler is the gradual transition from more elementary forms of thinking to more complex . Thus, the development of clearly-effective forms of thinking creates the Foundation for the transition to visual-figurative thinking, which, in turn, is a necessary stage in the development of logical (conceptual) thinking. Such transitions characterize the entire period of early childhood.
The conditions for the upbringing and education of children can contribute to this process, and can also hamper it, causing long-lasting negative consequences.
The specificity of the visual-active thinking is the close relationship of thought and action. If the child for any reason is not allowed to use your hands, and the matter is unresolved. In the process of this form of thinking is consistent, the transitions from the practical Continue reading