Small baby crying when he’s sick. He has no desire to “bully” their parents, just in another way he can’t announce that he was in trouble (is hungry, tummy ache, teething, etc.). For the baby form a favorable impression of the world (which is very important for its further development), none of his request for assistance should not be neglected. As noted by psychologists, these requests have mom must react with lightning speed. According to them, the sooner the mother comes to the child for help, the less nervous system suffers and the more favorable the impression the kid about his new habitat.
The books are especially popular in our country B. Spock a lot of advice not to take the child in his arms, not to play with him too much when he is awake, it is alleged, leads to the spoiled and prevents the development of independence. Alas, these tips (as well as much more in the books for Spock) the latest data of psychology does not stand up to scrutiny. It is tactile contact (when a child), a calm gentle voice mom give the child confidence, reduce stress, and thereby created the conditions for independence.
All parents it is advisable to learn one simple thing: in the first months of life (approximately one year) there is no danger to spoil the child. Love and affection can never have too many.
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Do you think that children should help their parents in household chores?
Why should the child have their chores?
Experts say that children’s participation in economic Affairs – promotes education in their responsibility, increases their sense of self-esteem and helps them feel needed. But here’s the reality of modern mom: we’re trying to do housework while the baby is asleep or in school.
Importantly, to determine the domestic responsibilities of the child in accordance with his age. The best way to involve the child in the implementation of economic Affairs, without creating unnecessary problems for herself is to highlight the responsibilities that children will be able to perform without assistance from beginning to end. Plus, to develop a system of rewards for children faithfully performed the work.
Children of kindergarten age
The words “household duties” are hardly suitable for children of this age, because they usually tend to spend more time with you and love to help. Choose easy tasks that will not bother your baby. Because chores for him at this stage is fun, so awards, as such he does not need. Just praise him for a job well done.
Mommy infant toddler tough: the days fly by, like a flash in the care of the little miracle that had settled in her house less than a year ago. But if the baby is not sleeping during the day, you can imagine how my mom’s head is spinning! We have to do all the chores, care baby, take care of diet, hygiene, yourself need to not forget, after all, not poevshaya on time and well rested mother will not receive the required volume of milk for feeding.
In such an active rhythm of life the baby who suddenly refused to sleep during the day, makes unexpected chaos in mom mode, becomes restless himself, and both are already tense enough that without the help of a third party, they can not do!
Well, if there’s an assistant who will swing to lull your toddler will replace mom in the kitchen or take a walk with the baby on the street. But if there is no such person, the parent simply can’t cope without the few valuable tips!
In this article, you will learn:
The reasons why babies don’t sleep during the day
My tummy hurts
The most common reason for a lack of sleep in babies, the first three months of life is colic in the abdomen. The intestinal flora of the newborn baby is formed for two whole years, but the first three months is a special time of formation, when in the intestines Continue reading