Countless screaming and spanking parents suffers from guilt, from the consciousness of his parent “incompetence”.
And can be, no need to bother? The inadmissibility of the use of physical violence and yelling as a means of bringing unchallenged. But we are not always Teachers, and sometimes even just real people. All people differ in many qualities, such as temperament and other properties of the nervous system. And if you have “explosive” or just enough emotional temperament, the constant attempts to “control myself”, not letting his violent feelings near the surface, may lead you to a real nervous breakdown or illness. Constantly suppressed anger can cause the development of hypertension, for example.
It seems that recently we talked about the fact that you cannot use the child as a “punching bag”, and tore off the irritation, “outweighing” on his own psychological turmoil. This is true.
But if the child brought you “boiling point”, if your violent reaction caused his behavior (and not by problems in their personal lives, rudeness in public transport or injustice of his superiors at work) – honestly, you have the right to shout and even plunk.
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Shown with small reductions
In I the classroom behavior of a student is fully regulated by the teacher, who usually uses in children unquestioned authority. “Said Maria Ivanovna,” says first-grader, explaining why he did exactly so and not otherwise. It happens that the student misunderstands the words of the teacher; parents are trying to correct the child, but he stubbornly stands his ground, referring to the teacher, not recognizing, in this case the authority of the parents. But in II, and especially in the third class, the student tries to understand the reasons why the teacher presents him with certain requirements. The child experiences an opinion that may disagree with the views of the teacher, then the teacher should explain to the student why you should do so. This desire to understand the motives of action indicates a growing child has a meaningful relationship to reality. But the authority of the teacher is not reduced. The kids ‘ respect for him is so great that many students of class III are sure that the teacher knows everything and can do everything.
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How to calm your baby: tips for parents
It is impossible to describe in simple words the feelings of motherhood, when near you next defenseless lump, whispering “in two holes” trying to make the first movement of the jaws, and this is his first gentle informative look. The young mother, unable to look away from your toddler picks up every movement, cherishes, cares, caress…
Yes, this is natural, as it should be. But this can’t go on all his life. There will come a time when mom will need to go to work, respectively, the child will begin to attend kindergarten. And here begins what many parents fear. What might be the reaction in the absence of the loved one?
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The first days in kindergarten
Those who have already passed this phase in their lives know very well that the first few days, when he will begin to attend kindergarten, constantly crying for her mother, panics, he is not interested baby toys that filled his room in the group, kind words professional educators. Constantly repeats the same word — ” Mother “.
At the first creak of the front door turns his tear-stained eyes with the hope that appeared in the doorway of his dear, beloved mother – the only person in the world, which he now wants to see.
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