“Mom, I’m pregnant!” Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow can understand. But why such a fear of experiencing adult women, who have everything in order, have a loving husband, a separate apartment, and the child (first, second, third, fifth…) — they are waiting with joy?
The situation says the psychologist Alla Hwang.
It is noticed that in today’s society, today’s women are really sometimes there is fear of motherhood. Motherhood is not really fit to the values of this society: self-realization, career, achievements… the Future of motherhood begins to be perceived boundary between normal life and the life where all the popular values seem to be unavailable.
Against this background, the fear to admit the mother in pregnancy is quite understandable. But he himself is in some sense just a shadow. And figure that the shadow gives is actually a need to support the mother and a lack of confidence, she will get it.
Before the older woman, the mother helped in childbirth, took the child, washed, taught young Continue reading
We arrived from the hospital. The first month of a child’s life is the most important for its further development and at the same time the most difficult. Everyone knows how difficult and painful childbirth are, but nobody really knows and feels how this process takes the child. Here childbirth successfully ended, mom easier… And the baby? ALL around more… the First breath, first cry…
Begin to work your reflexes, hunger, colon cleansing, hot, cold and others. Terrible, a huge stress – no wonder weight loss of 10% in the first 3 to 4 days of baby’s life is considered normal. Usually the child immediately put to the mother’s breast, he learns the sounds of the heart, the voice of the mother, receives the first drops of colostrum.
But here was the first week, organs and systems of the child has adapted to a new environment, recovered and began to increase the weight. All the baby needs for normal growth and immunity to the environment is contained in breast milk that appears on 3 to 5 a day, up to this time the child is fed colostrum. Allocation of colostrum and milk is usually sufficient for the nutrition of the child is produced as much as needed when feeding the baby on demand, usually in the first month the child should ask breast 10 – 12 times a day.
The child Continue reading