To beat or not to Beat the child-rearing practices

Countless screaming and spanking parents suffers from guilt, from the consciousness of his parent “incompetence”.

And can be, no need to bother? The inadmissibility of the use of physical violence and yelling as a means of bringing unchallenged. But we are not always Teachers, and sometimes even just real people. All people differ in many qualities, such as temperament and other properties of the nervous system. And if you have “explosive” or just enough emotional temperament, the constant attempts to “control myself”, not letting his violent feelings near the surface, may lead you to a real nervous breakdown or illness. Constantly suppressed anger can cause the development of hypertension, for example.

It seems that recently we talked about the fact that you cannot use the child as a “punching bag”, and tore off the irritation, “outweighing” on his own psychological turmoil. This is true.

But if the child brought you “boiling point”, if your violent reaction caused his behavior (and not by problems in their personal lives, rudeness in public transport or injustice of his superiors at work) – honestly, you have the right to shout and even plunk.

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Child lying

The child is lying – what is the reason and what to do about it? These questions are asked by many parents when they notice that the child is lying.

If the child is lying, parents begin to blame it on his friends who taught him to lie, to look for what they did wrong when raising, etc. but what to do if you started to lie 4-year-old kid who never goes outside alone and never learned to lie from her friends? If you realize that the child is lying, do not need to blame, shame and punish.

The nature of children’s lies

As we have said, the child may begin to lie to your parents at a very early age, but it should be understood that the kid isn’t doing this specifically and especially not for using lies to manipulate you.

Typically, young children are strongly developed imagination, but he is not yet aware that his imagination is not true. He comes up with different stories and he believes them because young children believe that their whole life is a fairy tale. Therefore, if your toddler tells you that came to him elf or some other fairy tale character, Continue reading

Greedy children – what should parents do with the money-grubber?

Greedy children — what should parents do in this situation? How to behave and how to re-educate the child? Unfortunately, today a lot of children with this problem. Moreover, it is not necessary that the child inherits the parents ‘ behaviour. Greed at first glance it may appear out of nowhere and interfere with normal communication not only of the child with peers, but also to excite parents: why suddenly the child became greedy. As happens with any problem, for its solution it is necessary to determine the underlying cause.

Greedy kid — where the problem occurs?

At the age of one and a half to two years the child has not yet formed the concept of his and others. All around exposed inquisitive child study — all around me! And hence it is necessary to investigate, tatakau away in your mouth, smell, taste and so on.

To two years the child is completely aware of his and I confidently speak their toys: “mine!” In this case — this is the first psychological stage of development of your baby. Only in this age, the child begins to realize what really “mine” and what is “not mine”, someone else’s. Hence the demand with the child now grows up, once there is an understanding — and then there is responsibility. My child is that close that expensive, what is in his range of sight Continue reading

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