Many kids are afraid of something, someone… How do these constant fears that are the basis for many life.
“… Come grey little wolf and bite at the flank,” the mother sings a lullaby, and then is surprised when he hears from a child :”I’m scared!”. Together, let us understand, what are the causes of fear from our children and how to deal with them.
In the first place . children learn fears from us, parents. If mom is afraid of dogs, there’s a very high chance that the child will be afraid of them. The same applies to fear of thunderstorm and lots more. The children of anxious mothers, ready all around to see the potential danger for your kid grow up to be ultra-cautious and fearful. And all because at every step mum warns: “Caution! Machine! Attention! Dog! Caution. “And the child becomes accustomed to living in anxiety, subconsciously, all the time expecting some danger.
Secondly . children’s fears and generates excessive parental care. The child growing in greenhouse conditions, it’s very difficult to adjust to life without “protective suit”, and he is everywhere begin to haunt danger, and on this basis, there are fears. A child’s opportunities to learn about Continue reading
“Mom, I’m pregnant!” Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow can understand. But why such a fear of experiencing adult women, who have everything in order, have a loving husband, a separate apartment, and the child (first, second, third, fifth…) — they are waiting with joy?
The situation says the psychologist Alla Hwang.
It is noticed that in today’s society, today’s women are really sometimes there is fear of motherhood. Motherhood is not really fit to the values of this society: self-realization, career, achievements… the Future of motherhood begins to be perceived boundary between normal life and the life where all the popular values seem to be unavailable.
Against this background, the fear to admit the mother in pregnancy is quite understandable. But he himself is in some sense just a shadow. And figure that the shadow gives is actually a need to support the mother and a lack of confidence, she will get it.
Before the older woman, the mother helped in childbirth, took the child, washed, taught young Continue reading
Many students face the problem that their family budget is not designed to buy things or pay for services that have not been designated as a “Essentials”. Sometimes, to go to the movies, buy yourself a new bag or purchase some very cool sneakers, the student need to look for a part-time job. The question is: how to earn money teenager without higher education and work experience? Believe me, it’s not as difficult as it seems! Students who already at the age of 14 thinking about where to earn money, have all chances to secure a minimum of financial independence, to self-manage your money and not ask parents “ice cream”.
Step # 1: assessment of the prospects
Earning money – this is the first conscious step into adulthood, which is often encouraged by parents. Have you got a passport? Then you can consider yourself quite capable, with the right to employment member of society. Unfortunately, not all employers consider candidates from 14 to 16 years, and earnings of schoolchildren in most cases is associated with heavy, low-skilled, repetitive work. And yet, some employers are genuinely happy to applicants aged 14 to 18 years. As a rule, pupils and younger still not confident, do not set up requirements for the employer and agree on a meager Continue reading