The birth of a child is not only a great happiness for the family. Usually such an important event is becoming quite a serious test of the strength of the relationship between husband and wife. And not all couples cope with the new role. That’s exactly why ladies ask the doctors a question: how can I return the attention and love of her husband, when the family has a new baby.
The birth of a child is fundamentally changing the perception of life people. Changing social roles and statuses, financial burden is redistributed, perekrivaetsya the mode of the day. And this is only a small part of what happens to the couple after the appearance of her long-awaited child.
What happens to the couple after the baby is born
First of all, the workload for young parents is significantly increased. Because the child requires persistent attention. This means that you have bad and a little sleep at night, during the day to be constantly alert, to regularly walk with the child and thus to carry out their daily duties – cleaning the house and making money.
If a child is restless or painful, all these concerns need to multiply it by two and get real busy young parents.
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Adult women, though, and the home, hardly coexist in the same kitchen, and adolescent girls it is not easy to grow up with the jealous moms.
So competition does not destroy the relationships of loved ones, it is better not to ignore (say, the problem does not concern us), and to investigate such a possibility, says analyst Ilona Tyszkiewicz.
Almost every fairy tale for girls begins with how his father married a bitchy beauty. And it’s not that at every step met orphans. Tales designed not only to them, and normal children. The growing child with a good relationship with my mother can not openly recognize the spirit of competition. Not so ashamed to dream about the victory over the “evil alien aunt” than a real parent. Incidentally, the first sibling rivalry occurs in 4-6 years, when it becomes clear that to marry dear old dad will not succeed – he’s busy. A child looks in a new way: on the one hand, this is mom’s favorite, on the other hand,… Oh, you had to be born before it and “borrow” dad. In adolescence there is another interest is: beautiful I mom?
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We arrived from the hospital. The first month of a child’s life is the most important for its further development and at the same time the most difficult. Everyone knows how difficult and painful childbirth are, but nobody really knows and feels how this process takes the child. Here childbirth successfully ended, mom easier… And the baby? ALL around more… the First breath, first cry…
Begin to work your reflexes, hunger, colon cleansing, hot, cold and others. Terrible, a huge stress – no wonder weight loss of 10% in the first 3 to 4 days of baby’s life is considered normal. Usually the child immediately put to the mother’s breast, he learns the sounds of the heart, the voice of the mother, receives the first drops of colostrum.
But here was the first week, organs and systems of the child has adapted to a new environment, recovered and began to increase the weight. All the baby needs for normal growth and immunity to the environment is contained in breast milk that appears on 3 to 5 a day, up to this time the child is fed colostrum. Allocation of colostrum and milk is usually sufficient for the nutrition of the child is produced as much as needed when feeding the baby on demand, usually in the first month the child should ask breast 10 – 12 times a day.
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