To beat or not to Beat the child-rearing practices

Countless screaming and spanking parents suffers from guilt, from the consciousness of his parent “incompetence”.

And can be, no need to bother? The inadmissibility of the use of physical violence and yelling as a means of bringing unchallenged. But we are not always Teachers, and sometimes even just real people. All people differ in many qualities, such as temperament and other properties of the nervous system. And if you have “explosive” or just enough emotional temperament, the constant attempts to “control myself”, not letting his violent feelings near the surface, may lead you to a real nervous breakdown or illness. Constantly suppressed anger can cause the development of hypertension, for example.

It seems that recently we talked about the fact that you cannot use the child as a “punching bag”, and tore off the irritation, “outweighing” on his own psychological turmoil. This is true.

But if the child brought you “boiling point”, if your violent reaction caused his behavior (and not by problems in their personal lives, rudeness in public transport or injustice of his superiors at work) – honestly, you have the right to shout and even plunk.

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Tantrum in a child: waking up at night – what to do?

How to calm your baby: tips for parents

It is impossible to describe in simple words the feelings of motherhood, when near you next defenseless lump, whispering “in two holes” trying to make the first movement of the jaws, and this is his first gentle informative look. The young mother, unable to look away from your toddler picks up every movement, cherishes, cares, caress…

Yes, this is natural, as it should be. But this can’t go on all his life. There will come a time when mom will need to go to work, respectively, the child will begin to attend kindergarten. And here begins what many parents fear. What might be the reaction in the absence of the loved one?

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The first days in kindergarten

Those who have already passed this phase in their lives know very well that the first few days, when he will begin to attend kindergarten, constantly crying for her mother, panics, he is not interested baby toys that filled his room in the group, kind words professional educators. Constantly repeats the same word — ” Mother “.

At the first creak of the front door turns his tear-stained eyes with the hope that appeared in the doorway of his dear, beloved mother – the only person in the world, which he now wants to see.

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The Abstract parent meetings I’m afraid mom

Synopsis parent meetings I’m afraid mom

Municipal preschool educational institution

Krasnoborsk kindergarten “Kolosok”

Abstract parent-teacher meetings.

“I’m scared, Mama!”

Prepared educator

Regaline E. G.

Krasnyi Bor

Fears in preschoolers.

Everyone knows that many children are afraid of something. One scared to stay in a dark room, others do not dare to go on the slide, others run away in horror from the dog, freeze with fear at the sight of bees. Some fear the characters of fairy tales: Baba Yaga, the wolf, the evil sorcerer, other images created by the imagination (“the man with the bag”, a chimney sweep, etc.).

The objects of children’s fears are extremely diverse, and their features are directly dependent on the life experiences of the child, the degree of development of his imagination and such qualities of his personality, such as emotional sensitivity, a tendency to anxiety, anxiety, insecurities, etc. The presence of fear in preschool children in itself is not, as a rule, any pathology, is usually age-related, transient in nature, but at the same time indicates a certain distress in the emotional – personal sphere of the child. Such fears arise from emotional Continue reading

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