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In I the classroom behavior of a student is fully regulated by the teacher, who usually uses in children unquestioned authority. “Said Maria Ivanovna,” says first-grader, explaining why he did exactly so and not otherwise. It happens that the student misunderstands the words of the teacher; parents are trying to correct the child, but he stubbornly stands his ground, referring to the teacher, not recognizing, in this case the authority of the parents. But in II, and especially in the third class, the student tries to understand the reasons why the teacher presents him with certain requirements. The child experiences an opinion that may disagree with the views of the teacher, then the teacher should explain to the student why you should do so. This desire to understand the motives of action indicates a growing child has a meaningful relationship to reality. But the authority of the teacher is not reduced. The kids ‘ respect for him is so great that many students of class III are sure that the teacher knows everything and can do everything.
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“Mom, I’m pregnant!” Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow can understand. But why such a fear of experiencing adult women, who have everything in order, have a loving husband, a separate apartment, and the child (first, second, third, fifth…) — they are waiting with joy?
The situation says the psychologist Alla Hwang.
It is noticed that in today’s society, today’s women are really sometimes there is fear of motherhood. Motherhood is not really fit to the values of this society: self-realization, career, achievements… the Future of motherhood begins to be perceived boundary between normal life and the life where all the popular values seem to be unavailable.
Against this background, the fear to admit the mother in pregnancy is quite understandable. But he himself is in some sense just a shadow. And figure that the shadow gives is actually a need to support the mother and a lack of confidence, she will get it.
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Sometimes all–still without punishment is not enough. It is about those cases, when your child knows what he’s doing is bad and wrong. He knows that this behavior imposed a strict ban. Knows – and checks… “strength”. And suddenly the boundaries of their own sovereignty to be extended? Suddenly can not be considered with parental demands? It is so important to clarify from time to time, who’s the pack leader.
Why you have to punish the child
Than to respond to children’s rudeness, deliberate cruelty, lies, blatant disobedience? Here, the reaction of the parents must be strict and unambiguous. Want–don’t want to have to punish. From all children’s misconduct was exactly the reaction requires approximately 10 %.
Incidentally, demonstrating defiance, the child… waiting for punishment and even needs him. After all, a false sense that you are stronger than adults, is not conducive to the successful development of the personality, only provokes fears. After all, if mom and dad can’t obey – therefore, their word penny is not worth it. From this, the child concludes: “parents – people are weak, lacking authority”. It can’t protect you any–that weakling?
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