Many kids are afraid of something, someone… How do these constant fears that are the basis for many life.
“… Come grey little wolf and bite at the flank,” the mother sings a lullaby, and then is surprised when he hears from a child :”I’m scared!”. Together, let us understand, what are the causes of fear from our children and how to deal with them.
In the first place . children learn fears from us, parents. If mom is afraid of dogs, there’s a very high chance that the child will be afraid of them. The same applies to fear of thunderstorm and lots more. The children of anxious mothers, ready all around to see the potential danger for your kid grow up to be ultra-cautious and fearful. And all because at every step mum warns: “Caution! Machine! Attention! Dog! Caution. “And the child becomes accustomed to living in anxiety, subconsciously, all the time expecting some danger.
Secondly . children’s fears and generates excessive parental care. The child growing in greenhouse conditions, it’s very difficult to adjust to life without “protective suit”, and he is everywhere begin to haunt danger, and on this basis, there are fears. A child’s opportunities to learn about Continue reading
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A group of pre-school.
Level I – 4-5 years
Level II – 5 – 6 years
English for kids Tuesday and Thursday from 13 to 14 hours
As well as the enrollment
The group “Steps” (recording only for September 2010)
The Group “Scarce”
Group “Were Pulled-Varastossa”
Group of English language for children
These groups are not formed yet and the schedule is not ready for them. Just constantly go transoms children in the already established group. To enroll or ask clarifying questions You can call: 8 (916) 401-62-30 or via the feedback form in “Contacts” section.
Courses for pregnant women
Our school moms and dads “Mom Studio” will help to find answers to the following questions:
1. A pregnant woman especially physiology. Changes in emotional condition of the woman during pregnancy. Stress during pregnancy . how to deal with them. Diet. Physical load. A sexual relationship. Rest. Sleep. Minor ailments and ways to address them. Relationships in the family. Pregnant dad.
2. Baby from the moment of conception until V. rodo feels the baby inside mommy’s tummy. Communicate and develop your baby before birth. Experiences of the child during intrauterine life . Preparing Continue reading
The birth of a child is not only a great happiness for the family. Usually such an important event is becoming quite a serious test of the strength of the relationship between husband and wife. And not all couples cope with the new role. That’s exactly why ladies ask the doctors a question: how can I return the attention and love of her husband, when the family has a new baby.
The birth of a child is fundamentally changing the perception of life people. Changing social roles and statuses, financial burden is redistributed, perekrivaetsya the mode of the day. And this is only a small part of what happens to the couple after the appearance of her long-awaited child.
What happens to the couple after the baby is born
First of all, the workload for young parents is significantly increased. Because the child requires persistent attention. This means that you have bad and a little sleep at night, during the day to be constantly alert, to regularly walk with the child and thus to carry out their daily duties – cleaning the house and making money.
If a child is restless or painful, all these concerns need to multiply it by two and get real busy young parents.
Naturally, to make Continue reading
Clinical psychotherapy for children and adolescence exists at the intersection of social, psychological, medical and pedagogical directions. The basis of a variety of methods and techniques of therapeutic intervention is developmentally oriented approach.
The conceptual foundations of children’s and adolescent psychotherapy is the fact that the physical appearance of the child, unlike an adult, is changed qualitatively in a short time, and the faster, the younger the age. Return to previous, mobilesmania state of mind can not serve as the optimal goal in working with the child in the process of rapid growth and development. It is therefore important that mental state by the end of psychotherapy characterized by the patient before the disease, and was in keeping with the level of development of the psyche, which would be created by this time, while maintaining the favorable external and internal conditions of ripening. Based ontogenetically oriented approach is evolutionary biology the concept of mental illness, and in particular the doctrine of mental dysontogenesis G. E. Sukharev, G. K. Ushakov, V. V. Kovalev. Learner-centered psychotherapy psychodynamic, humanistic, behavioural Continue reading
Countless screaming and spanking parents suffers from guilt, from the consciousness of his parent “incompetence”.
And can be, no need to bother? The inadmissibility of the use of physical violence and yelling as a means of bringing unchallenged. But we are not always Teachers, and sometimes even just real people. All people differ in many qualities, such as temperament and other properties of the nervous system. And if you have “explosive” or just enough emotional temperament, the constant attempts to “control myself”, not letting his violent feelings near the surface, may lead you to a real nervous breakdown or illness. Constantly suppressed anger can cause the development of hypertension, for example.
It seems that recently we talked about the fact that you cannot use the child as a “punching bag”, and tore off the irritation, “outweighing” on his own psychological turmoil. This is true.
But if the child brought you “boiling point”, if your violent reaction caused his behavior (and not by problems in their personal lives, rudeness in public transport or injustice of his superiors at work) – honestly, you have the right to shout and even plunk.
This, Continue reading